Our Fertility Update

Whew.. yet another post that I keep putting off. It’s been 13 months since I last shared about our journey to becoming parents. It’s interesting how infrequent I have shared considering that this blog originally started to document our journey. Please don’t think that the lack of sharing about our journey over the years is due to a diminished desire to become parents, because I can assure you that is not the case.

Last month (April) hit the four year mark since we started trying and I just didn’t have the energy then to make a ‘it’s been four years and we are still not pregnant post’. But, I decided I put if off for long enough and it was time to hit submit.

This post doesn’t deserve a roll out of the red carpet. No drum roll is needed. There is no exciting announcement and in fact, as much as I cringe when I write these words, absolutely nothing (in the natural) has changed from my post last year. You read that right, nothing!

We are stilllll waiting. Still believing. Still hopeful. The wait has continued. And yes, the longer we have waited the harder it has gotten. But the expectancy has also been built even more. Romans 8:25 in the Message translation says, “But the longer we wait, the larger we become, and the more joyful our expectancy.”  You better believe that joy is increasing in us each day in anticipation of the day we receive our breakthrough.

So the reason I have put this post off for so long is because I really have nothing to share. We are still on the same path which includes not tracking, charting, temping, timing, but just believe for a miracle. There aren’t any doctors appointments. There aren’t any medical updates. We are still in a season of finding balance with our diet, vitamins, oils, etc. The only thing that has stayed consistent is our hope, trust, and faith in the Lord. 

So there you have it, my update that really isn’t an update. Thanks again to all who have followed along on our journey. In other news, I will be sharing some exciting updates over the next few months (no it has nothing to do with a baby), so I hope you will at least stick around for that.

“Let us not grow weary in well doing, for in due time we will reap a harvest, if we do not give up.” Galatians 6:9

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48 Comments
  • Rebecca Jo
    Posted at 07:22h, 27 May Reply

    I love that picture of you & your love. You’ll use that banner in your baby’s room one day 🙂
    I so am waiting excitedly for your day of announcing your PG 🙂 So many will be celebrating with you… & praying for you in the journey to that day.

  • Lily
    Posted at 08:07h, 27 May Reply

    The wait does get harder with time, but thank you for sharing that verse…it made me smile. One day this will all be worth it. Always praying for you, sweet friend!

  • Carissa Maul
    Posted at 08:40h, 27 May Reply

    You have kept consistent the one thing you need to keep consistent, your faith and trust in His plan. I love this little sign you guys are holding, in due time, He will bless you, when the time is right, He will answer. And your faith and steadfastness through this journey is inspiring!

  • Amanda
    Posted at 08:51h, 27 May Reply

    I prayed for you and Colby last night. Believing with you and for God’s will to be done through it all. I struggle with understanding why he has not blessed you with a baby yet, and I know you struggle with that too, obviously. I do know that your story and faith is a blessing to so many. Love that picture of you guys!

  • Nicole
    Posted at 08:52h, 27 May Reply

    “I feel it in my bones, you’re about to move” (Spirit Move, Bethel) – I really do, Caroline! You’re faith will see you through. Trusting in-due-time with you!

  • Elena Ridley
    Posted at 08:58h, 27 May Reply

    Even though our journeys are pretty different, I totally understand where you’re coming from! We hit the 5 year mark soon & it really feels like we have gotten nowhere even in all the treatments we’ve done. You’re so strong!

  • Biana
    Posted at 09:09h, 27 May Reply

    Continuing to send prayers your way!! I hope you have a wonderful weekend!

  • Ashley
    Posted at 09:11h, 27 May Reply

    I really admire your faith and trust in the Lord. My husband and I have tried for 9 years now to get pregnant. I wholeheartedly believe it will happen IF that’s in God’s plan for us. Our daughter was born 5 years ago and entrusted to us through the gift of adoption. We have an open relationship with her birthmother and it has been an amazing blessing that we never could have imagined. I believe that all Christians are mandated to care for Orphans. Have you prayed about adoption? Don’t miss out on what could be your biggest blessing while waiting for something that could possibly not be in God’s plan for your family.

  • Kelli {A Deeper Joy}
    Posted at 09:41h, 27 May Reply

    Have a great weekend Caroline! Always praying for you guys!

  • Betsy Herman
    Posted at 10:17h, 27 May Reply


    Thanks for sharing and I’ll be sticking around!

  • Tanya @ the sky and back
    Posted at 10:21h, 27 May Reply

    Great pic! Your faith is inspiring. I hope your long-awaited miracle is just around the corner!

  • Dreaming of Diapers
    Posted at 10:23h, 27 May Reply

    C, I will tell you that we’ll all REJOICE in your wonderful news once it happens and I’ll support you until it does! Always here for you Caroline! And I LOVEEEE that picture of you two! Such a beautiful couple! xoxo

  • Tiffany
    Posted at 10:39h, 27 May Reply

    Love that photo of you two. Your faith is immeasurable Caroline. We’re all still rooting for you guys.

  • Laura H
    Posted at 10:52h, 27 May Reply

    Keep holding on, Caroline! You’re an inspiration to all your friends – inside and outside the infertility camp. I know you’ve blessed me tremendously. 🙂

    Have fun on your trip!!

  • Aly
    Posted at 11:08h, 27 May Reply

    Your faith inspires me!! ??

  • Rhonda
    Posted at 12:06h, 27 May Reply

    Thank you for sharing where you’re at. It’s hard when we don’t see progress from our standpoint. Thankfully I believe God never forgets about us and is always active on His end.

  • Nichole Minor
    Posted at 14:23h, 27 May Reply

    This post resonates with me like you wouldn’t believe. I stopped using fertility apps to chart, I haven’t seen the doc in nearly a year and I have changed my diet to plant based along with taking supplements and teas to balance my hormones and increase fertility. I’m already noticing a difference in my hormone imbalance each cycle.

    My hope and faith lies with the Lord and each month my hubby and I look forward to receiving a BFP. It’s been nearly 3yrs of trying and I no longer stress or worry about my fertility struggles. I have complete joy knowing that God has already worked it out. Thank you for sharing your post. I’ll continue to pray that your good news will be soon.

  • Andrea
    Posted at 15:07h, 27 May Reply

    Praise the Lord – looking forward to your upcoming great news!

  • Mihaela Echols
    Posted at 16:46h, 27 May Reply

    I love your picture at the bottom. I pray for people in your shoes often.

  • Allison
    Posted at 17:38h, 27 May Reply

    Praying for you sweet girl. I can’t imagine the journey, but the Lord is preparing you for something great!

  • Amber
    Posted at 18:48h, 27 May Reply

    I love your banner – such a sweet picture that will be a great memory for your future little ones! I’m standing in faith with you, sister!

  • Jaclyn
    Posted at 19:28h, 27 May Reply

    I’m with ya – the waiting is hard – I was just thinking that today. But I am purposed more than ever to look to the “mark” and keep my eyes on Jesus and live everyday to the fullest! 🙂

  • Sarah Eliza @ devastateboredom
    Posted at 21:44h, 27 May Reply

    Praying for you in your wait! How difficult it can be. 🙁 *hugs*

  • Julie Hood
    Posted at 21:59h, 27 May Reply

    I love your honesty, and I’m believing with you for that miracle!

  • Chrissie
    Posted at 22:39h, 27 May Reply

    Sending so much love to you both. Our journey was only two years, but it felt long and lonely and then we got our miracle boy – and since then our two girls. He is drawing you closer in this time of waiting, know that your joyful anticipation is inspiring and certainly infectious. I wait and long with you and for you to be parents, and look forward to seeing the rest of the story of your family unfold

  • Charlotte
    Posted at 23:15h, 27 May Reply

    You are an unbelievably strong woman and I’m honored to be in this space with you and share in your journey (as it is one I’m on myself). In due time, I believe this wholeheartedly for you 🙂 thank you for sharing and that photo of you and your hubby is adorable. Xoxo

  • Emilee
    Posted at 23:42h, 27 May Reply

    I can only imagine how challenging it is to be waiting, but I admire that you are continually trusting in God. I pray you will be sharing that announcement soon!

  • Patricia
    Posted at 06:51h, 28 May Reply

    Love you friend. ❤

  • Jen
    Posted at 02:45h, 29 May Reply

    Your faithfulness is an inspiration.

  • Pamela
    Posted at 21:16h, 29 May Reply

    “The longer we wait, the larger we become.” Powerful Scripture. I don’t remember ever thinking about that verse. Ever new! Still waiting and praying with you.

  • Cheryl
    Posted at 09:04h, 30 May Reply

    Dear friend! Tears came to my eyes as I looked at the sweet picture of the two of you…still waiting, still expecting your miracle. I am SO proud of you both for maintaining your faith and persevering through the discouragement. Surely hope deferred makes the heart sick, but when your miracle comes through for you, it will be such a tree of life!!! Such a sweet life that God will place in your lives and home! I am still praying for you, too, and still believing God for your miracle. It is going to be amazing and bless and inspire the faith of so many. Everyone who has been following your story will be amazed at the power of Almighty God, and HE will get the glory. Standing firm with you in faith!

  • ellesees.net
    Posted at 14:35h, 30 May Reply

    i was crossing my fingers when i opened this! still in my prayers!!

  • Jenelle
    Posted at 20:08h, 30 May Reply

    I read this to my husband and told him this was my blog post written by Caroline. He had no clue who I was talking about and neither did I. Your post came up on my Pinterest page so I decided to read and felt like I had written it myself. This was encouraging, even as we wait. Romans 12:12 is my life verse. It’s so hard to be patient in affliction, joyful as we hope and faithful in prayer, but it’s something we actively work on. Thank you for sharing even if “nothing has changed.” I know each month brings awareness to how much we trust and wait patiently for God’s timing.

  • Jennifer DeFrates/Heaven Not Harvard
    Posted at 11:28h, 31 May Reply

    Sometimes in the waiting God has lots of blessings for us, lessons we need to learn or strength for coming challenges. I’m glad you’re taking the time to listen to your bodies and God. If and when you decide it’s time to take medical steps or adopt, you’ll know it is what God put in front of you.

  • Tedi @ Running with Infertility
    Posted at 17:42h, 31 May Reply

    Waiting is hard, being patient is hard. But with patience and waiting you grow either 2 ways closer to God or further away. I’m glad to hear you are still growing closer to Him! ?

  • brianna
    Posted at 21:48h, 31 May Reply

    I can’t wait to celebrate with you when that day comes. Praising him NOW for all he will do and has done through your transparent faith journey.:)

  • Elise Welch
    Posted at 10:59h, 01 June Reply

    Thanks for being an encouragement to me! Praying for you guys and believing in your miracle! God bless!

  • Tiffany Garza
    Posted at 08:27h, 02 June Reply

    Just found your blog on the shine blog hop. Praying for you and your sweet family and for God to continue to give you hope and joy in the waiting.

  • Jed
    Posted at 12:05h, 02 June Reply

    I love your faith and am wishing you the best in your ongoing journey. Your faith truly is inspiring! Wishing you both an incredible weekend vacation too!

  • Inez
    Posted at 13:10h, 02 June Reply

    I really love that pic! It is so telling of your faith and determination to stay positive in the waiting.

  • Maria
    Posted at 13:40h, 02 June Reply

    There might not be an update, but it’s a great reminder to you and your family of the strength you both have in waiting. I would have to agree with Rebecca Jo. That banner is lovely and you finally get the news, I’m sure it’ll go great in your baby’s nursery. Thanks for stopping by #shinebloghop today

  • Jenny @ Unremarkable Files
    Posted at 10:22h, 03 June Reply

    Hang in there. That sucks that you have nothing to report (and you really want to have something!) It sounds like you are keeping yourself in good spirits and hopefully time will make it clear why you were meant to go through this journey.
    #SHINEbloghop

  • Alonda
    Posted at 19:40h, 04 June Reply

    I know your life story is ministering to so many! Thank you for sharing your journey so openly.

  • Carissa
    Posted at 19:01h, 05 June Reply

    I admire you so much for your openness! It took 6 years to conceive my daughter. She is now almost 5. When she was 2 I actually got pregnant accidentally but then lost the baby some months later. After healing from that and then moving and not having insurance for a long time, we just started trying again last year. I’ve stopped counting the months we’ve bee trying because it’s too discouraging for me right now. Hoping and praying for little babies for you and me soon!

  • Scantily Dad
    Posted at 09:33h, 21 March Reply

    Best of luck. I feel your pain. I have been on the same journey and my wife and I now have beautiful twins

  • Scantily Dad
    Posted at 09:34h, 21 March Reply

    Best of luck. I feel your pain. I have been on the same journey and my wife and we now have beautiful twins.

  • Vanessa Wrigh
    Posted at 19:47h, 23 July Reply

    I’d like to join the support group

  • Carla
    Posted at 15:59h, 08 August Reply

    Thank you so much for sharing, and for being so steadfast in your beliefs. It is admirable and inspiring. I am praying you will get your little miracle “in due time” <3

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